Max Collinge: Emotional Intelligence

Max Collinge and Pres. Tim
Max Collinge and Pres. Tim

Our speaker on April 21st, Max Collinge, in a succinct presentation, maintained that Emotional Intelligence and body language are better predictors of one’s success than an IQ, Citing his own rise from the depths of poor self-image and directionless existence, he came to develop social skills by employing a few vital principles.

Much is based on the Vagus nerve, a structure responsible for the difference between comfort and panic. How we think of ourselves determines how we comport ourselves and, in turn, how others regard us. The development of five character traits often makes all the difference:

  1. Love for oneself and the other person leads to favorable body language (i.e. a deep breath that stimulates the Vagus) and a feeling of sociability.
  2. Intellectual Honesty. Speaking one’s mind and not withholding opinions helps to burn off resentment, leads to clearer speech, truth, honesty, and transparency. One is thus able to speak reasonably and vent what is on one’s mind, obviating negative thoughts.
  3. Emotional vulnerability.  Allowing this to show on one’s face is preferable to a masking smile. It communicates how we really feel.
  4. A genuine interest in other people, especially in cases of strained relationships, is a good trait. Be tuned in, pick up emotional cues. Ask people about themselves. All of this can be soothing.
  5. Self-direction. Have pride, hold the head up high, and believe you have the capacity. This results in self-assurance.
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He asserts that if we think of which of the five keys with which we may have trouble, and work on them, good results may well ensue.

Comment:  Some have the innate capacity. Others have to work at it.

May 6th, UW Rotaract Banquet and Auction

Top (63)Sign up for UW Rotaract’s Annual International Service Scholarship Banquet and Auction on May 6th, 2016. This will be held at the UW Hub Lyceum from 6-9 PM. Tickets are $20 for students and $25 for the general public. There is also an option to sponsor a table (8 seats) for $160. If you sell 2 tickets and if you are a Rotaract member, you get yours for free! All proceeds go toward our student service scholarships and charities!

Your ticket includes access to a live auction, silent auction, raffle, and a buffet dinner catered by Little Thai Kitchen, and one free alcoholic beverage (if you’re over 21)!

If you have not paid yet, please go to tinyurl.com/donateuwrotaract BEFORE the event. Please contact uwhsroto@uw.edu or ssleong@uw.edu for any questions or concerns. See you on May 6th!

Camaraderie!

Quite often when asked, “What is Rotary?” it is easy to respond, “We are a Service Organization”, whatever that means. Most of us then begin to enumerate the various local and international projects or causes we support; including programs which aide and promote international understanding; and who hasn’t heard about Rotary’s commitment to the eradication of worldwide polio, or how about the various local and national literacy projects; not to exclude, local food drives, tree planting, and the promotion of Rotaract clubs which introduce and involve college students in “Service Above Self”. Most important for the success of all of these endeavors is the camaraderie.

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Why are these people laughing?

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Pamela Banks and Past President Mike Madden
Pamela Banks and Past President Mike Madden
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Phill Briscoe with Jenny Martin

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Teri St. Onge, Chase Carter, Betsy Conklin, and Pam Mushen
Teri St. Onge, Chase Carter, Betsy Conklin, and Pam Mushen

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Bono’s Message to Rotary Members

Published on Jun 19, 2014
“Whenever I go doing my work in Africa, The Rotarians have been there before me. It Is very humbling thing to discover just exactly what “Service Above Self” adds up to when you see it in practice in the field” ~ Bono

 

 

 

 

 

 

Chris Bailey, former King County Prosecuting Attorney

Chris Bailey
Chris Bailey

March 24th our speaker was Chris Bayley, former King County Prosecuting Attorney.  He recounted how he created a justice model that has showed how the office is to be run. His reforms endure to the present day.

He is an advocate of strong relationships between the justice system and the community. Had his model been in place, the police shooting tragedies in the US would not have resulted in unrest and violence.

He traced the history of vice-related corruption, wherein brothels, liquor, and gambling had been allowed to flourish through a system of payoffs. Thus, licenses were continuously renewed. This Tolerance Policy went on for some 30 years. The City Council Licensing Committee, if not paid off, would harass the entrepreneurs. Thus, the pinball-punch card-pull-tab illegal industries made millions and averaged a yearly $500K in revenue to the city. The police vice squad payoff system grew. The Tolerance Policy was, in fact, public endorsement of municipal corruption.

In the middle ’60s, Bayley and other reformers began a campaign to elect different council members. US Attorney Pitkin took office, but could enforce only federal, not state law. Bayley, in some interesting political machinations and confrontations, scored an upset with a narrow victory and became Prosecuting Attorney for King County. He reformed the office and, as he stated it, drove a stake through the police corruption system. His predecessor, KCPA Carroll, had not prosecuted important violations, but trivial ones. This changed. Favorable treatment came to an end. The law began to be applied equally to everyone, including prominent offenders. Police departments were made to behave. The office was thus professionalized.

Comment: It is probable that, elsewhere, corruption exists. It is hoped that similar reformers will enter those arenas as well.

April 1st, Services for Rev. David Storm

Parrish PhotoThe memorial service for The Rev. David Storm will be on Friday, April 1, 2016 at 1:00 pm at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church in Port Angeles, WA.

The Rev. Stephanie Parker is looking into hiring a bus for transport. If you are interested, please sign up on the clipboard in the Narthex of the church. A public graveside service at Lake View Cemetery is Saturday April 2, at 11:00am.


 

The Rev. David Anderson Storm

1928-2016

Born: 2/3/1928 in Seattle , WA

Son of: Jerome Richard Storm and Dorothy Rachel Storm

Education: Broadway High School, Seattle, 1946; BA Whitman College, Walla Walla, WA, 1950;

M Div, Virginia Theological Seminary, Alexandria, VA, 1965

Confirmed in the Episcopal Church, Christmas 1961 at Cathedral of St. John the Evangelist, Spokane, WA

Ordained to the Diaconate: 6/20/1965; Ordained to the Priesthood: 6/24/1966

Business Background:

1950-1958       Department Manager, J.C. Penney Co., Seattle, WA

1958-1962       Credit Manager, Volker Co., Spokane, WA

Service:

1965-1967       Assistant/Curate, St. Stephen Episcopal Church, Spokane, WA

1967-1972       Vicar, St. Hilda-St. Patrick Episcopal Church, Edmonds, WA

1972-1993       Rector, St. Andrew Episcopal Church, Port Angeles, WA

1974-1980       Diocesan Evaluation Committee, Diocese of Olympia

1974-1990       Training and Consulting Services (TACS), Diocese of Olympia

1978-1982       Diocesan Council, Diocese of Olympia

1993                Retired

1995-2016       Assisting Priest, St. Stephen, Seattle

Other:

1962   Spent 5 months traveling in Europe and the near East. Visited 22 countries during that time.

David Storm went into the ministry after a career in business. While working in Spokane for the Volker Company, at one time the largest wholesale distributor of home furnishings in the country, he started attending the Cathedral of St. John the Evangelist and was confirmed there at Christmas 1961. The Very Rev. Richard Coombs, Dean of the Cathedral wrote that, “David was one of our boys who went into the ministry…He graduated from the Virginia Seminary, and went to St. Stephen’s as curate following his ordination.” When St. Stephen’s, Spokane could no longer support a curate, Dean Coombs suggested that David contact “near-by” bishops about employment. One of these “near-by” bishops, Bishop Ivol Ira Curtis of Olympia responded and soon David was on his way back to the Seattle area with an appointment as Vicar at St. Hilda, Meadowdale (now St. Hilda-St. Patrick, Edmonds). St. Hilda’s had only been formed a few years before and shortly after his arrival, St. Hilda’s and St. Patrick’s, Eastmont began share David’s ministry and eventually formed one congregation. After his first visit to Meadowdale,

David wrote,

I had an exciting albeit confusing ride through the Meadowdale area yesterday. The best characterization of the area would be people to people – like wall to wall carpeting. The area seems to have no focal center except the schools so St. Hilda’s (I found a sign on a tree pointing in a nebulous direction with that name on it) meeting there is a good thing. Growth – and rapid at that – would seem to be the order of the day for the area and for the church…

 David served at St. Hilda’s-St. Patrick’s for 5 years during which time ground was broken for a new church building. In September 1972, he wrote to his congregation telling them of his acceptance of a call to St. Andrew, Port Angeles, The writer of the Book of Ecclesiastes rightly says that there is a time and a place for all things. I don’t recall that he says how one deals with such changes in terms of your own feelings…I have been privileged to be a part of your lives as you have been of mine. While I will no longer be your priest, I can still be your friend and I do wish well for each of you… This sentiment is typical of David Storm as he was and is often described as a good friend. In a variety of letters he’s described as ‘amiable and likable,’ ‘ready to build friendships across denominational lines,’ ‘a most likable and engaging person, open, interested, always ready to engage with people..’ and ‘very kind, a gentle man, and a gentleman.’

Fr. Storm served 21 years at St. Andrew’s where he exhibited the qualities of caring and friendship referred to throughout his career.   A conscientious priest and a good administrator – responsible in the matter of expending church funds, he felt that, the Lord’s money must be spent wisely at all times. One parish secretary remarked that this was a ‘comment he makes with sufficient regularity that it might be considered a by-word with him.’

Arriving in Port Angeles on the heels of the Rev. Walter McNeil, Jr., who left to become Archdeacon for the diocese, David had some big shoes to fill. As a new church building had just been completed, he and the congregation could concentrate on pastoral concerns and community outreach – as well as continued development of the church facilities.

In 1983, Fr. Storm suggested an idea to the Port Angeles city council to establish a fund to help people in need pay utility bills. The idea called for those who were able and willing, to contribute money to a fund that would help people truly in distress and unable to pay their bills. A utility relief fund was subsequently established. He also served on the local committee responsible for allocating federal aid funds to those in need of shelter and food.

During his tenure at St. Andrew’s the new Coulter organ was installed and a memorial garden was also established.

Fr. Storm was also active in the diocese serving on the Diocesan Evaluation Committee, tasked with the responsibility of evaluating the effectiveness of diocesan programs, Diocesan Council and as a member of TACS, the diocese’s Training and Consulting Services, with which he served as a senior trainer focusing on leadership development and organizational skills.

Though David retired from St. Andrew’s in 1993, he continued to occasionally officiate there and was also soon at work again as Assisting Priest at St. Stephen’s, Seattle – where he continued his ministry.

He will be missed!

Dr. Mike Mallahan, Audiologist: Serving those in need.

IMG_7899On March 17th our speaker: Dr. Mike Mallahan, audiologist par excellence, is wholly committed to an endeavor that brings the prospect of a better life for many.

It concerns hearing loss and its prevention. It involves screening of infants for deafness. It is known that, if the defect extends beyond two years, a child will never catch up and will face a disadvantaged lifetime. Dr. Mallahan has taken his skills, along with those of a corps of associates, to Guatemala. Allied with him are local Rotary clubs and fueling the process are Rotary grants.

In rural areas, where medical facilities and personnel are sparse, he has held screenings of newborns where, indeed, absence of hearing can be detected. At as early a stage as possible, they are fitted with hearing aids. Audiology technicians volunteer to fly in and aid in the screenings. They, in turn, train local personnel in the techniques. He gave three case histories in which children were rescued from deafness and its consequences. These represent a microcosm of the successes that are occurring. It is hoped that ophthalmologists will join the project. For the future, he envisions:

  • A Global Grant to fund more newborn screenings
  • More partner Rotary clubs to aid in funding
  • More audiology training and equipment to be financed
  • Ongoing surgical and medical supply needs to be met
  • Expansion to other Spanish-speaking countries.

Comment: As we often observe, to do a little bit at a time helps make the world a better place. Dedication and its results have a way of expanding. We have witnessed this phenomenon in a number of previous addresses to our club.

 

Remembering our Friend: Rev David Storm

Parrish PhotoFriday, March 11, 2016.

“Fellow Rotarians,
It is with a heavy heart that I send you this ….  Rev. David Storm passed earlier today and I wanted to make sure all of you knew of the passing of this great Rotarian. I am told he was his normal quick-wit self up till the end….just like a bright bulb that finally fades away at the end, just as he would have wanted.
An amazing man dedicated to the church and our rotary club, he will be incredibly missed.  As more details come out around services and other celebrations of life, I will let you know.” –Tim Lenihan, Club President

“The tributes that have come in e-mail form for David Storm cannot be exceeded in eloquence, nor can their sincerity be gainsaid. We are glad that he was honored in life and thus was able to feel the affection and respect of so many before he left us. As some may know, he held a pulpit for years in Port Angeles. At the time of the fiftieth anniversary celebration of his ordination, held in this city, the numbers of attendees were swelled by many who saw fit to travel from there to be present. Such was but one example of the esteem he engendered in the course of a fulfilled life.

Although he traumatically sustained splintering neck fractures that could have rendered him at least paralyzed, he was granted a recovery, possibly by One who decided that we might have him a bit longer.

The Rotarians and those at Merrill Gardens will miss his philosophy and good humor. He has left a hiatus in both places.”-Dr Harold Ellner

Such a wonderful man”.-John Reynolds

He was a fine man.”-Arnold Swanberg

Rev. Storm was a hero to me.”-Tom Ranken

“I did not know Rev. Storm very long but, as the daughter of an Episcopal priest, I enjoyed his invocations immensely and had some memorable chats with him over breakfast. I was so impressed by his commitment to Rotary and unblemished attendance record. What a remarkable man and great role model.”-Sarah Cave 

“Reverend Storm was a friend to all of us, ready at a moment’s notice to provide an invocation, and brought his sense of humor and joy to our Rotary meetings. He will be remembered well.-Lillian “Scotty” Ottaviano

 

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Coach Jim Lambright joins USR

Dr Hal and Coach Lambright
Dr Hal and Coach Lambright

Jim Lambright was installed as a new  member of the University Sunrise Rotary Club. He is a former member of the Marysville Rotary Club.

Jim had an illustrious career at the University of Washington where he lettered in football his last two playing years, was named  All Conference , All Coast, and Most Inspirational player, voted on by his peers.  Jim coached and taught school in Fife before returning to the University of Washington football program as a coach where he remained for 34 years.  He coached in  394 games; 8 Rose bowls along with 20 other bowl games; participated in two national championships, one as a player and one as a coach, winning 67% of those games.

Jim has two adult  children , Eric and Christine both of whom live in the area.  He has six grandchildren. Dr Hal Ellner will be Jim’s Rotary sponsor. Welcome Coach Lambright!

Alan is wearing his Jim Lambright Celebrity Golf Classic jacket.
Alan is wearing his Jim Lambright Celebrity Golf Classic jacket.

 

Debuts and Discoveries Thank You from Pres Elect Jim Horrigan

Pres elect Jim Horrigan
Pres elect Jim Horrigan

University Sunrise Rotary Club Members, As your President Elect and Debuts & Discoveries Chair, I would like to extend a formal thank you to everyone for our successful 2016 Debuts & Discoveries Event.  Everyone in the club participated in some way, from promotion to ticket sales to set-up to cleanup.  You showed the power of a group of individuals working toward a common goal.

While the final numbers are not in, it appears we raised $20,000+ at the event.  This year’s selected recipient, Oudoors for All, will receive $10,000 for their adaptive cycling program.  The remaining dollars will allow our club to have a significant impact in the community and be able to offer support to others in the coming year as the opportunity arises.

I would also like to publicly thank Ed Bronsdon, the Operational Chair, without whom this event could not have taken place.  Thanks also to our President, Tim Lenihan, and Nancy Bolin, last year’s Event Chair, who provided me invaluable support throughout the planning process.

Fellow Club Members, take a bow.  I am proud to be associated with such a great group of Rotarians; the University Sunrise Rotary Club.  Again, you have my heartfelt thanks for your efforts.

Yours In Rotary,

Jim Horrigan, President Elect and 2016 Debuts & Discoveries Event Chair